The answer within yourself

Here below is the answer to our beloved follower, whose letter appears on the previous post.

Dear Jenny, thank you for sharing with us such an important part of your life and also for showing to us how much suffering you are feeling because of this situation. The things that have been happening to you for a long time in your life are the repetition of an apparently unsolvable programming. It might seem that the greater your commitment, the lesser the recognition you receive. It also seems that there is no healing for your sister, despite your efforts in helping her at all costs. Please bare in mind that an act of Love cannot be recognized and honored, especially if we project expectations onto it, such as: ” I help you, but I expect that you recognize me as your savior”. Your sister and her sons, are neither bad nor unaware, otherwise they would not have chosen such a turbulent path for their lives. Especially for what concerning Tom, who has taken the road to drug addiction, it probably means that he is expressing a personal malaise that he was not able to heal by himself but, in reality, his malaise is a burden of suffering that weighs on his shoulders and those of his family. In our book “We Are Human Angels” we say that other people are nothing more than  mirrors that reflect something about ourselves (either our Light or our shadow) . Related to your situation, we can suggest to you not to feel separated from your relatives, and not to feel they are different from you because of their suffering. You are an angel for them, and you express, through your behavior, a part of their angelic side that they have not been able to fully express in their own lives but that they express through you. At the same time, you can see if they express some aspects of your life that you have already overcome, healed, and transcended.

Each of you can draw, from the well of the other, the lifeblood that can nourish the better part of every one in service to the common good. For now, you can go on helping them outside of any judgement and without saying what is “right” or “wrong” to them. Your next step is that of being thankful to your sister for the opportunity she has given to you to be an angel, because probably they would do the same with you. Tell your sister that you are honored to help her without projecting onto her your expectations of gratitude. Tell her that you feel absolutely sure that they would help you in the same way you’re doing with them if your roles were reversed. To the son that is in the Drug Rehabilitation Centre, tell him that the act of helping him is a source of joy and also tell him that he is an angel, and that he will be healed of his suffering. Tell him that you do not go to visit him in order to feed your ego through his recognition of what you’re doing for him, express gratitude and respect for the burden of suffering that weighs on his shoulders. By honoring  his pain, you will heal yourself from the suffering that you express through him. Heal yourself, and he will heal with you: there is no separation between you and him.

You have helped your relatives for a very long time, denying yourself that Love you are giving to them. Do not sever the bond with your sister and look deeply within yourself: you are probably not yet ready to let her go. When you start to love yourself more, they will start to love themselves too, and the healing will be mutual and spontaneous. Only then the bond between souls that have tightened around you so painfully will be slipped, and each of you will be free to live their lives freely with joy in their hearts, out of any burden of suffering. We hug you all and we support you in your healing journey. We wish you joy and bliss.
Your Angels Friends.
Human Angels

A heart touching letter from one of our followers

Sometimes we receive letters from some of our followers, or from people who have read our book “We Are Human Angels” and, touched by the topics and inspired by what we write, decide to contact us with the purpose of sharing some meaningful parts of their lives, asking for suggestions about their problems and those of their beloved ones. One of these letters, written by a woman, that we received a few days ago, has touched us in a particular fashion because it is related to some of the aspects that we deal with in our book. It is about the vision of others in their role as our mirrors.
In the first part, you will read the woman’s letter and in the following post, you will read our answer.

This woman, whose name and nationality will not be shown (as it is not important to the contest) told us a story about herself and her sister, asking us for suggestions about her behavior in the future. We will call this woman Jenny (it’s a fantasy name, of course). This is her story. At the end, you will also find the answer we gave her. Let us know if this story rings a bell, or if you find that it resonates with you and your life.
Jenny is a single woman with no children. She has financially supported and helped her young sister for almost 30 years. Jenny’s sister got married when she was very young, had three children and, after a short time, lost her husband (became a widow). When Jenny’s sister lost her husband, she immediately fell into a depression, becoming addicted to psychotropic drugs and started to have financial problems, also due to the fact that three of her children have never had a job, relying on the fact that they were all financially supported by Jenny. Since the beginning of this situation, Jenny on one side was helping her sister, and on the other side was complaining about this situation, continuously telling her sister that she wanted some respect for what she was doing for her and expecting that something would change for the better in her sister’s life. Nothing has changed in thirty long years, except that one of Jenny’s sister’s children ( a boy that we will call “Tom”) has become addicted to hard drugs and, after his arrest on drugs charges, was forced into a drug rehabilitation center for a long time. Jenny has taken it upon herself to support and visit him at the center, always expecting that her support could change something for the better, but unfortunately without positive results. Her sister is still living a hand to mouth existence and asking Jenny for money, and Jenny is still giving her money. At the end of last month, Jenny decided to stop her financial support, but her sister reacted to this news with a lot of rage, and now Jenny does not know what to do, because she is worried about the fact that her sister could also commit suicide, due to her sister’s unstable mental state and that Tom is not expressing any wish to recover from his problem. The two other children seem completely absent and seem to have no respect for themselves or their mother. Jenny wrote to us asking: “What should I do about my sister? I am alone, and I also have to look after my old mom; should I stop helping her or should I go on? Please help me.”
You will find our answer in the next post; we share it with you hoping that it may help some of you that might be in a similar situation. We are not arrogant to presume that we have all of the answers and this answer may not be perfect for your situation . It is a suggestion that comes from our hearts to Jenny’s relatives, who are suffering so much.

Human Angels are beacons

What would happen if everyone stopped pursuing their own personal interests and, with the awareness that we are all One, set themselves in service to the Greater Good? It would be heaven on earth!
The world created by the ego is, nowadays, experiencing its dramatic fall. Now, from the ashes of the old world a new vision of Consciousness arises, whose messengers are the Human Angels. “When we live in the ego, we are human. When we live in the awareness of the Oneness, we are Human Angels”.
Simply by being who they Are, Human Angels remind others of their own Divine Nature.
Like beacons, they illuminate the darkness, to help those who are still on the path to stay the course.
Like beacons, they illuminate the route of those who are still traveling through the treacherous waters of the ego: this is the role they have chosen for themselves as Human Angels, with the purpose of leading humanity from the world of the ego to the world of Oneness, that is heaven on earth.

Ykseys ja ego

Ykseys tarkoittaa täydellistä elämää, joka on yhtenäinen ja jakamaton, aina läsnä. Kaikki elämä huolimatta erilaisista muodoistaan, on yhtä. Ego on erillisyyden harha, joka saa meidät uskomaan, että se mitä olemme sisältämme, eroaa siitä mitä on ulkopuolellamme.
Luulemme, että olemme erillämme muista ihmisistä. Ego on tapojen, pelkojen, tuomitsemisien ja ennakkoluulojen kehys, jota kutsumme persoonallisuudeksi tai luonteenpiirteiksi, jotka estävät meitä näkemästä todellisen itsemme.
Kun katsomme elämäämme, tulemme tietoiseksi siitä, että olemme yhtä. Oivallamme, että meidän ja maailman välillä ei ole erillisyyttä. Ihmiset, joita olemme elämämme aikana tavanneet, ovat olleet ainoastaan omaa projisointiamme, niin kuin mekin olemme heidän. Tuo heijastus on enemmän ja vähemmän osa meitä: meidän valoamme ja meidän varjoamme. Kun tuomitset jonkun, tuomitset itsesi. Kun vihaat jotakuta, vihaat itseäsi. Kun rakastat jotakuta, rakastat itseäsi (tämä on tärkein avain ykseyteen). Kukaan ei pysty milloinkaan pettämään, nöyryyttämään tai loukkaamaan sinua, jos et ole ensin itse pettänyt, nöyryyttänyt tai loukannut itseäsi.
Ajatuksemme ja tunteemme ovat voimakkaita ja pettämättömiä energiakenttiä, jotka vetävät puoleensa toisiaan täydentäviä energioita. Näin me luomme jokaisen hetken elämässämme. Muut ihmiset toimivat meidän peileinämme ollen joko hyviä tai pahoja, oikeassa tai väärässä, ja ovat siksi irrallaan kaikesta tuomitsemisesta; he vain heijastavat sitä mitä me heijastamme heihin. Myös se tuska, jonka nämä peilit meihin heijastavat on lahja, joka meidän tulisi hyväksyä kiitollisuudella rakkauden lahjana, joka antaa meille mahdollisuuden havaita ja kokea emotionaaliset haavamme ja eheytyä niistä.
Jos opimme peilaamaan muita ihmisiä ymmärtääksemme kuka todella olemme, alamme tulla syvästi tietoisiksi omista arvistamme ja rajoittuneista uskomuksistamme, joiden kautta olemme elämäämme luoneet. Jos esimerkiksi haavat ovat syntyneet hylkäämiskokemuksista, alamme luoda elämäämme ”kaikki jotka rakastavat minua, jättävät minut ennen pitkää”-uskomuksesta käsin, jolloin vedämme jatkuvasti puoleemme niitä ihmisiä ja tilanteita, jotka saavat meidät yhä uudelleen kokemaan hylkäämisen tunteita, kunnes me emme enää pelkää noita tunteita.
Ykseydessä ei ole uhreja eikä vainoajia, vaan ainoastaan rakkaus, joka on meissä jokaisessa sielussa tänne syntyessämme. Rakkaudessa rakkauden tähden.
”Seuraavassa elämässä on sinun vuorosi kärsiä, kun heijastan sinuun kaikki pelkosi. Mutta samalla toimin sinulle myös herättäjänä, rakkauden välikappaleena. Muista, kun tuo aika tulee: mitä nopeammin muistat rakkauden siteen, sitä vähemmän sinun tarvitsee kokea kärsimystä.”
Ja kun tuo heijastus, jota peilaamme, on puhdistettu pelosta ja jokaisesta rajoittavasta uskomuksesta, me tulemme lopulta kokonaisiksi ja puhtaiksi valon peileiksi.

Tämä käännös on lahja lukijaltamme, joka luettuaan alkuperäisen englanninkielisen teoksemme otti meihin yhteyttä, ja pyysi saada kääntää kirjamme suomalaisten ihmisenkeleiden saataville omalla suomenkielellään. Deepthi, kiitos sydämemme pohjasta siitä rakkaudesta ja innoituksesta, jonka kirjamme sai käännöstyössäsi osakseen.

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El perdón

El pasado continúa viviendo dentro de nosotros y, a pesar que tratamos de liberarnos de él, el sufrimiento del pasado continúa haciendo eco dentro de nosotros y nos provoca nuevo sufrimiento.
Solo el perdón puede liberarnos del pasado y dejar ir nuestras ataduras, abriendo nuestros corazones al paraíso del agradecimiento. Pero para hacer esto, primero debemos limpiar nuestra memoria (a nivel celular) del enojo y del resentimiento que la ilusión de la separación ha impreso en nuestras células.
Limpiar nuestra memoria celular significa que perdonamos, definitivamente y desde lo más profundo del corazón, a aquellos que nos han lastimado, desilusionado o abandonado, comenzando por las memorias más antiguas (aquellas de la niñez), hasta las heridas más recientes.
Perdonar a otras personas, para perdonarnos a nosotros mismos, porque otros en sus roles como espejos, no han sido más que una herramienta de nuestra falta de amor a nosotros mismos, falta de reconocimiento, y falta de respeto a nosotros mismos.

De la perspectiva de la Unidad, perdonamos al ver que somos co-creadores de nuestro propio sufrimiento. “Te perdono. Has sido mi espejo por medio del cual pude entender que tan poco me amaba a mi mismo/a. Ahora entiendo que lo hiciste por amor y te agradezco profundamente. Gracias a ti he podido ver mis heridas y ahora las puedo observar, reconocer y curar”.
No puede haber vencimiento verdadero del ego sin el perdón en la Unidad. “Ahora te puedo dejar ir, puedo perdonarte y perdonarme a mí mismo/a. Te bendigo y te agradezco. Ahora que te he liberado/a, también me he liberado/a a mí mismo/a”.
El acto del perdón desata cada uno y todos nuestros nudos. Solo el amor y el agradecimiento pueden liberarnos.

( tomado del capítulo 1.5 de nuestro libro “Somos Ángeles Humanos”, a la venta en Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Apple iBookstore, Kobo y Sony Reader Store.)

Forgive yourself

When you clear your cellular memory from the destructiveness

of your repressed emotions and from the poison of

unexpressed resentment and anger,

you become able to heal your whole life.

With the healing power of forgiveness you overcome

every mistake you have ever made.

Now, with a compassionate heart,

you forgive yourself.

Renew your energies

When we recognize all the fruitless relationships as dead branches in our lives and we have to courage to cut them down, we finally renew our energies: we prepare ourselves for a new bloom.