Judging your partner, thinking of them as being wrong, is but a trick of the ego: “They are immature” or “selfish”, or “not reliable” or “unfaithful” or “afraid of my love”, “…”.

If you judge your partner from outside the perspective of the Oneness, separate from yourself, how can you really love them? Use your partner as a mirror to see yourself more intimately and deeply and start to feel that you are your partner and your partner is you, beyond any judgment. Begin to recognize and to accept yourself through them…
(from our ebook We are Human Angels)